Tag: Meditation

  • Chronic Stress – Dangers and Relief

    Chronic Stress – Dangers and Relief

    Chronic Stress can be fatal!

    Chronic stress is a result of prolonged physical, mental and emotional pressure, and when left unattended can result in a variety of health issues – both mental and physical.

    Chronic stress is not age governed, especially in the modern society where pressures are felt by all age groups in school, home and work environments.  At a very young age, children are thrown into situations that become a hindrance in their natural growth.

    While some stress may simply act as drivers to propel people in the right direction to complete projects with deadlines, constant stress can be harmful to the naturally functioning human systems. Serious health conditions may arise and including depression, anxiety, insomnia, fatigue, migraines and headaches, hypertension, ulcers, irritable bowel syndrome, muscle pain, high blood pressure, high blood sugar, heart disease, obesity, and a weakened immune system leading to more diseases.

    How to manage stress?

    Stress management is critical to survival and involves lifestyle changes to prevent consequences of chronic stress. These lifestyle changes do not need to be overwhelming, and when taken up one step at a time delivers effective results that can prolong the joyful quality of one’s life.

    What are these life style changes that reduce daily stress?

    • A daily authentic yoga asana practice, by enabling the body to release happy hormones, goes a long way in treating anxiety, as well as in improving flexibility, strength, balance and stamina as well as strengthening the internal body systems.
    • A daily practice of controlled breathing techniques improves lung capacity and renews life.
    • A daily meditation practice not only calms the mind but makes it more creative and productive and encourages harmonious living.
    • A healthy nutrition habit nourishes the body from within and enables a medicine free life.
    • Getting a good amount of sleep lets the body repair and rejuvenate.

    Do not wait for something to go wrong. Do not wait to get hit in the face when you have no choice left. Take the first step. Reach out, for help is available; and do not worry, for all is possible in baby steps without being overwhelmed. All you need is an intense desire to be better in your health and the very first action step: reaching out for help. ~ Umang Goel
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  • Modern Yoga VS Authentic Indian Yoga

    Modern Yoga VS Authentic Indian Yoga

    Modern Yoga VS Authentic Indian Yoga

    Finding Life’s Meaning Through The World Of Yoga

    The word “Yoga” in Sanskrit (the language of ancient India – where yoga originated) is defined as “UNION.” Yoga is the true union of mind, body and spirit. . The critical aspect of yoga is to bring ones attention inwards (the spiritual aspect of yoga) – which is critical to one’s well-being and the foundation for a healthy and wholesome life.

    In the modern world and in today’s language, the word yoga is commonly used to describe the physical postures or poses (Sanskrit word “asana”), but posture or asana is only one of the eight limbs of yoga as stated in the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali.

    1. Yama: The 1st limb constitutes the 5 ethical guidelines for moral behavior towards others.
    Ahimsa: Nonviolence
    Satya: Truthfulness
    Asteya: Non stealing
    Brahmacharya: Non-lust
    Aparigraha: Non-covetousness
    2. Niyama: The 2nd limb constitutes the 5 guidelines for moral behavior towards oneself:
    Saucha: Cleanliness
    Santosa: Contentment
    Tapas: Sustained practice
    Svadhaya: Self Study
    Isvara pranidhana: Surrender to God
    3. Asana: The 3rd limb is the practice of yoga postures or asanas.
    4. Pranayama: The 4th limb is the practice of controlled breathing exercises.
    5. Pratyahara: The 5th limb is the practice of withdrawal of the senses, the practice of going inwards.
    6. Dharana: The 6th limb is the practice of concentration, the ability to focus without distractions from the outside world.
    7. Dhyana: The 7th limb is the practice of meditation. Meditation is a holistic discipline through which the practitioner attempts to get beyond the reflexive, “thinking” mind into a deeper state awareness.
    8. Samadhi: The 8th limb of yoga is the state of bliss, the enlightened state, where the Self transcends through meditation.

    Those who have gone deeper into the world of yoga through all its limbs have found solace. They have understood what it means to have a yogic life and are gradually making yoga in all its glory a part of their life.

    There are very few places that yoga is taught authentically and from every aspect – where the philosophies and the principles are brought right into the practice itself, where the instructor spends time in discussing and incorporating the critical aspects of life. These seem to be reserved for Yoga Teacher Training only and even then all aspects may not be covered. The modern world sees yoga as an asana practice only, which again is just one limb out of the 8 limbs of yoga. Yoga means to be wholesome. A yogin is someone who strives to cultivate all aspects of being a wholesome human.

    Here is an excerpt from the wikipedia about asanas, that throws light on the real meaning of a yoga practice, which in the modern world has become nothing more than an exercise routine:

    “Asana (/ˈɑːsənə/; About this sound listen (help•info) Sanskrit: आसन āsana [ˈɑːsənə] ‘sitting down’, < आस ās ‘to sit down’) is a body position, typically associated with the practice of Yoga, originally identified as a mastery of sitting still. In the context of Yoga practice, asana refers to two things: the place where a practitioner (or yogin, in general usage), yogi (male), or yogini (female) sits and the manner (posture) in which he/she sits In the Yoga sutras, Patanjali suggests that asana is “to be seated in a position that is firm, but relaxed” for extended, or timeless periods.

    As a repertoire of postures were promoted to exercise the body-mind over the centuries to the present day, when yoga is sought as a primarily physical exercise form, modern usage has come to include variations from lying on the back and standing on the head, to a variety of other positions.However, in the Yoga sutras, Patanjali mentions the execution of sitting with a steadfast mind for extended periods as the third of the eight limbs of Classical or Raja yoga,[6] but does not reference standing postures or kriyās. Yoga practitioners (even those who are adepts at various complex postures) who seek the “simple” practice of chair-less sitting generally find it impossible or surprisingly grueling to sit still for the traditional minimum of one hour (as still practiced in eastern Vipassana), some of them then dedicating their practice to sitting asana and the sensations and mind-states that arise and evaporate in extended sits.

    Asana later became a term for various postures useful for restoring and maintaining a practitioner’s well-being and improving the body’s flexibility and vitality, with the goal of cultivating the ability to remain in seated meditation for extended periods. Asanas are widely known as “Yoga postures” or “Yoga positions”. “Asana” quite simply means “a posture”. Any way that we may sit, stand or position our hands is an asana. Therefore, many asanas are possible. However, a particular posture that leads you to a higher possibility is called a yogasana.

    Yoga in the West is commonly practiced as physical exercise or alternative medicine, rather than as the spiritual self-mastery meditation skill it is more associated with in the East.”

    The modern world is about instant gratification, whining, complaining, showing anger, back-biting, writing nasty comments originating from their own angry minds without a sound perspective, threatening, jumping to baseless conclusions, making false assumptions and without any sense of remorse, eating whatever comes their way, indulging in mindless activities, wasting time and money on things that do not matter,instead of reaching the depths of their own being where peace, joy and wisdom resides, and yet such people want to call themselves “yogi” and “yoginis”.

    The real yoga is who you are inside and not what you have accumulated in the external world. It is a journey to an enlightened state of being.

    A healthy, strong, flexible and balanced mind leads to a healthy, strong, flexible and balanced body. Without developing awareness, without the practice of meditation and breathing, which leads to such a healthy state, there is no yoga.

    It all begins with planting of the right seed of awareness. We are in yoga 24X7, for it is how we conduct our life. ~ Umang Goel

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  • Stress-Free Life

    Stress-Free Life

    Stress-Free Life

    Make your life joyful – one baby step at a time.

    The key to a simple and joyful life is hidden within us and yet we are often left confused.
    In the day to day running around we forget why we started running around in the first place – to achieve a life that is peaceful and happy.

    Sooner or later tiredness sets in. Stress is in both the mind and the body. Life feels heavy and trapped. It is only in this state of heaviness that we either become depressed or we start searching for answers.

    To find the answer to a stress-free, peaceful and joyful life, ask yourself these basic questions:

    • Do I take some time out just for me on a regular basis?
    • Do I keep myself mentally, emotionally and spiritually nurtured?
    • Do I take care of my body  – the temple where our Soul dwells?
    • Do I exercise my limbs daily so that I stay strong, flexible and balanced?
    • Do I eat nutritious food so that my body gets the nourishment it deserves?

     The very first step towards a balanced life is “AWARENESS”.

    Many years ago, when I became aware how imbalanced my own life was, I determined that I would create a more balanced life for myself, one step at a time:

    • The very first step was to open myself up for mentoring by someone who could help me change my perspectives, who could help me see life from a very positive angle and who could guide me to a better life by teaching me tools that I had no clue about.
    • I started reading self-help books and words from authors who were highly motivating, inspiring and encouraging and in conjunction with the support I was receiving from my coach, I was able to apply what I learned into my life.
    • I also enrolled myself in a life awareness class where I learned and refreshed myself in some basic life philosophies that had accumulated dust over the years.
    • I enrolled myself in basic Breathing and Meditation Classes, which taught me life techniques that proved critical to my well-being.
    • I started exercising on a daily basis.
    • I got initiated into a yoga asana class and realized that it was my gift, and trained as a teacher, incorporating this mind-body practice into my daily life.
    • I felt the need for nutritional education and devoted myself to learning all about how to nourish myself.
    • I learned very important money concepts that would not have been possible without the support of my coach.
    • I learned how to free myself of a corporate career.

    All the above happened over the course of a few years. I had the needed support so I was not in a hurry and especially because the learning process was so joyful. How the years passed I was not even aware for I was devoted to learning and growing.I still am.

    And now it has become a mission to educate others what I have learned over the years.

    As the mind becomes clear of what one needs, it is able to achieve it. Freeing ourselves of self-implied barriers leads the path to peace, health and happiness.

    Take the first step, for you are worth it. ~ Umang Goel

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  • Meditation

    Meditation

    The Art and Science of Meditation

     

    Many have not even begun to reap the benefits of a simple meditation practice simply because they are under the mis-conception that it is a difficult practice or not possible for everyone!

    Here is my attempt to eradicate the myth that “not everyone can meditate.”

     What is meditation?

    Meditation is finding the space between thoughts.

    As long as we have breath we will have thoughts; so thinking that meditation will allow you to have no thoughts is not only a myth but something that we should have no need to aim for!

    Benefits  of Meditation:

    • Calms the mind
    • Decreases the stress hormone, cortisol.
    • Reduces anxiety.
    • Decreases blood pressure to optimal levels
    • Reduces cholesterol
    • Strengthens the immune system

    As one continues to spend  minutes each day being in silence, the calm gradually seeps into every facet of one’s life, bringing harmony and balance, compassion for every being, and urges one towards the Source creating a sense of peace within.

    Key concept in reaping the benefits of meditation:

    Just get started with complete faith that everyone can do it and then do it consistently every day!
    And if you can do it at the same time every day, it is even better for it gives it the much needed consistency that builds a life-long habit.

    How to get started with simple Meditation:

    • Find a peaceful, comfortable, and safe spot of your choice.
    • You can sit on a cushion against a wall for back support and cushions under your knees (You can even sit on a chair or you can lie down too if neither of the other options work for you.)
    • Once comfortable, close your eyes and focus on breathing – inhale and exhale with mouth closed.
    • Whenever your mind wanders, strive to bring your focus back to breath, again and again.
    • Start with 5 minutes and gradually increase to 10 to 15 to 20 minutes.

     

    That is all it takes. Just do this every day and form the healthiest of all habits and reap the benefits for years to come. ~ Umang Goel

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  • Self Love Enables Weight Loss

    Self Love Enables Weight Loss

    Yogic principles enable self-love and self-love enables weight loss

    “Self love is the only weight-loss aid that really works in the long run.” ~ Jenny Craig

    So very true for being in shape takes intense desire, dedication, discipline with both food control and daily exercise. Because we are human beings we need the motivation and inspiration on a daily basis as well.

    So how do we stay inspired and motivated on a daily basis to stay healthy?

    A dedicated group environment where people meet each other daily on common grounds with a common goal – health – is so very essential. Each one of us needs not just a set of exercise to move our limbs daily or a regimented eating routine, but a true yoga practice where all 8 limbs of yoga are embraced which enable one to lead a joyful life. When one embraces these yogic principles, self-love automatically blooms. When one learns to embrace self-love one also is able to achieve whatever they desire from the core of their being.

    Some key principles are:

    • Self-discipline with all aspects of life and including food
    • Asana / Poses  to exercise the body
    • Pranayama / Controlled Breathing to exercise the lungs
    • Pratyahara / Withdrawal or Sensory Transcedence to stay disciplined
    • Dharana / Focus / Concentration to accomplish what one has set as a goal
    • Dhyana / Meditation / Contemplation to keep the mind clear and calm.

    I know that this was my goal with Wellness Haven – to create a happy and safe space for those with the common goal of holistic healthy living to come together and inspire each other daily. Following the yogic principles has helped me achieve what I had set out for, and I am grateful, for Wellness Haven is impacting many lives daily.

    What are your aspirations? ~ Umang Goel

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  • Solitude Is Self Love

    Solitude Is Self Love

    Solitude Is Self Love

    Only when you learn to love yourself do you love your solitude.

    There is a difference between loneliness and solitude.

    Solitude allows you to reflect and understand yourself, which is one of the most difficult things to do for those who find their pleasure only when they are with someone.  Such people become restless unless they are in a constant state of connection with the outside world and doing something or the other.  Such people face loneliness.

    Loneliness is failed solitude.” ~ Sherry Turkle

    On the other hand solitude is a choice. You prefer your own company for it gives you the peace, the comfort, the relaxation, and complete rest that is only possible when you are by yourself and away from the daily drama of life. This solitude becomes blissful when the mind is also at complete rest, that is you are in a meditative state with your eyes closed and none of your body parts are moving. This is a time which leads you to creativity and productivity and achieves your very best.

    “When you learn to love your own company you become far more careful who you spend your time with.”  ~ Katrina Mayer

    We live in a society where many do not understand the criticality of solitude. The daily issues that people are faced with would take on a completely different meaning and people would be able to stay away from anxiety and depression if they were to practice the art of self-discovery  through solitude.

    We all need to learn how to love our own company, become our own beloved and choose wisely who we are with at other times. When this self-love prospers, we do not use the external world as a means of escape.

    A person complete on the inside loves solitude.

    A person who is unable to live with the self is lonely, for such a person considers it an imprisonment, a punishment, and struggles with living on a daily basis.

    Solitude does not mean you let go of society.

    Solitude  means that you embrace society with acceptance and deep love for the self, enabling a richer and more empowered society.

     Going from loneliness to being complete is the process of self-discovery, which comes only with proper guidance, time and patience. The practice of Meditation, Controlled Breathing/Pranayama, Yoga enable this process of self-discovery. The result is invaluable. ~ Umang Goel

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  • Declutter Your Mind With Yoga

    Declutter Your Mind With Yoga

    Declutter Your Mind With Yoga

    A relaxed mind is an uncluttered mind, and an uncluttered mind leads to an organized and productive life.

    1. Let deep breathing and meditation lead you to calm your mind.
    2. Let yoga asanas enable you to relax your body.
    3. Let silence and non-doing allow you to reflect and contemplate into finding out which part of your life remains in chaos.
    4. Let action steps lead you into organizing your life so that there is time and space for everything you want to do.
    5. Have a plan for each day from morning to night, including self-care and power-nap. Know that if something is not scheduled and planned there is a high risk that it will not get done.
    6. Have a TO DO LIST in one place so that the mind can be relaxed and not worry about forgetting what needs to get done.
    7. Declutter everyday so that you have to spend 10 minutes and not hours cleaning your mess.
      1. Paper Piles, Paper Bills, Reminder Notes
      2. Electronic Filing: Emails
      3. Clothes in your closet, and laundry
      4. Bathroom mess-up
      5. Bed
      6. Kitchen Counter, Sink, Dishwasher, Fridge

    Clean your physical space and mental space so that you can lead the life you desire. Le Yoga, breathing, meditation propel you into the right action. ~ Umang Goel

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  • Finding Balance

    Finding Balance

    A well balanced life is the secret to joy and happiness.

    There are a few areas of life that we all need to be aware of to create that fine balance we all need in our lives:

    • Mental – This is a very important ingredient in the recipe for a joyful life. If the ‘head’ is together and finds its connection with  the heart, every other aspect of life flows beautifully, irrespective of what unfolds in front of us.
    • Emotional – Emotional well-being comes from understanding the basic life principles; emotional strengthening helps us create a life that is progressive and not stuck.
    • Spiritual – Spiritual growth helps us understand and accept life peacefully and joyfully.  It brings faith in your Higher Self enabling life to unfold without the tight controlling grip. Prayer and Gratitude are key ingredients.
    • Physical – Physical health enables us take full advantage of the opportunities life presents us with. Flexibility, strength, balance and stamina as well as the right nutrients not only helps our body to be healthy but also helps our minds to become flexible, strong and balanced, allowing us to be joyfully independent and self sufficient.
    • Financial – When mind is working at its optimal best and the body is fluid, balance comes in the financial part of our lives as well for we are able to work with our passions and empowered to achieve the life of our dreams.
    • Relationships – With a healthy mind, a healthy body and a secure financial future, relationships are also at their very best.

    Balancing life is a juggling act. Very few of us are completely balanced in every aspect of our lives. But awareness at all times allows us to take a deeper look at our life and evaluate every so often which parts of our life need a tune-up.

    Many may even be aware of which part of life is in chaos, but may not be mentally, or emotionally ready to act on it, leading to continued imbalance and chaos. This is where expert coaching becomes a necessity.

    Life is as simple as you want it to be but it can only be achieved by bringing awareness leading into action and ultimately into balance.

    It is the law of nature to be in balance. What falls out of balance has to come back in balance. How difficult the coming back to balance will be resides in our hands.

    We all are aware that:
    PREVENTION IS MANY TIMES BETTER THAN CURE – Why get into a broken state with scars before attempting balance? Why not take all necessary actions to prevent going out of balance?

    PREVENTION IS ALSO LESS EXPENSIVE THAN CURE – Why get into forced spending that is externally controlled after we are broken and when there is no other choice?

    You cannot be happy if you are not balanced.

    Here is a fine balanced recipe for a healthy, happy, joyful and balanced  life:

    1. Make a habit of  Joyful Mental practices EVERYDAY to keep the mind strong.

    2. Practice Breathing/Pranayama and Meditation EVERYDAY to stay in a relaxed and calm state of mind so that beauty can unfold naturally.

    3. Practice Therapeutic Yoga Asanas EVERYDAY to keep both your mental and physical body flexible, strong, and balanced.

    4. Put the Right Nutrients in your body EVERYDAY to keep both your mental and physical body functioning at its optimal best.

    5. Indulge in Spiritual practices like prayer and gratitude EVERYDAY to bring your mind and heart in sync and to keep your spirits soaring high.

    Evaluate yourself regularly so that you can keep bringing yourself into that fine balance that keep the elusive happiness very much a part of your daily life.

    ~ Umang Goel

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  • De-stress Yourself The Right Way

    De-stress Yourself The Right Way

    How do you de-stress yourself?

    When you are tired or frazzled or anxious or feeling low, what do you do?

    Do you reach out for salty, sugary and fatty food?

    Do you sit in front of  the television and eat salty, sugary and fatty food?

    Do you hide under the blanket?

    or

    Do you go for a walk in fresh air?

    Do you indulge in some deep breathing /pranayama exercises?

    Do you relax with yoga asanas?

     

    Deep Breathing / Pranayama, Meditation and Yoga Asanas are the best drug for frazzled nerves.

    Everything comes naturally once they become a habit. It takes not 21 days, but 3 months to form a habit. Know that you are worth the habit that .will keep you healthy for years to come. Everything starts with the first step. Begin with something small like sitting down in silence just for 5 minutes even before you get out of bed or before you go to sleep. Breathe deeply from your belly.  Then do this everyday for 90 days and see for yourself what happens!

    You will appreciate yourself more than ever before. This is one of the best ways to stay de-stressed on a daily basis.

    Try it out today! ~ Umang Goel

     

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  • Yoga Props

    Yoga Props

    Yoga Props

    Yoga props not only help the beginners realize the asanas but it also enables us to deepen our body explorations and enhance our yoga asana, breathing and meditation practice. But understanding of how and when to use the props without becoming ‘attached’ to the props is very important in the yogic journey.

    Props should be used effectively and wisely.

    –          A restorative yoga asana session seems incomplete without props.

    –          A flow session on the other hand minimalizes the use of a prop. One has to have a clear understanding of the use of a prop to be able to use it effectively in a flow yoga practice.

    –          A Breathing/Pranayama and Meditation session becomes enhanced with use of props by providing back support and posture support.

    1. What are the very basic yoga props?

    Mat, Blocks, Wedge, Strap, Bolsters, Blankets

    The Wall proves to be one of the most effective prop for a new yogi.

    The Ball helps the yogi in many ways to enhance their yoga asana practice.

    The chair is a wonderful prop for many.

    The backjack chair provides the much needed support to a meditative sitting yogi without wall support.

    2. Characteristics of a good quality yoga mat:

    –          Moist sticky  surface

    –          1/4th inch thick

    –          Compact

    –          Durable

    –          Hypoallergenic

    Those new to yoga are not aware and end up buying cheap quality yoga mats that have a plastic like surface, are very dry, and very thin! All of these prevent a beginner from getting the full benefits of a yoga practice for they are slippery and prevent the yogi from finding stability and balance. When the mat is very thin, it does not provide enough support for the bones and joints.

    3. How are Block, Wedge, Strap, Bolster, and Blanket helpful?

    All the above props provide support to the yogi providing balance, height, stability and comfort.

    –          Blocks help by allowing the yogi to reach the earth when they are still working on stretching and lengthening their ligaments and muscles to become more flexible.

    –          Straps/Belts are very handy when tight hamstrings prevent the arms from reaching the toes in any forward bend or when tight shoulders prevent the fingers from finding their way together in the Gomukhasana pose.

    –          Wedge enables the heels to get grounded and to provide the much needed lift to the pelvis for an aligned posture.

    –          Bolsters and Blankets help cushion and support the body in a restorative asana.

    If you have invested yourself in a well-supported yoga asana session, go a little further and provide your body the much needed support so that the body develops in the most optimal and correct manner. Your body deserves all the love and attention you can give it.

    At Wellness Haven we believe in guiding you to find your optimal support through some of the best props from HuggerMugger. ~ Umang Goel

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